BY LICIA
CORBELLA, CALGARY HERALD APRIL 4, 2013 5:05 PM
Rev. Ray Matheson,
the pastor of Congregational Care at First Alliance Church, reflects on his
time with the late Ralph Klein. Matheson had met Ralph many times, but grew
closer in late 2011 when he was invited to the former premier’s home to discuss
spiritual matters.
Photograph by: Ted Rhodes ,
Calgary Herald
Just four days before dying on Good Friday, Ralph
Klein was more lucid than he had been in months, knew that his death was
imminent and was very much at peace with it, his pastor says.
Rev. Ray Matheson, the congregational care minister
at First Alliance Church, says he went to visit the former Alberta premier on
Tuesday, March 26 at the long-term care facility Ralph was living in.
“When I walked in the room he put out his hand and
said, ‘Ray!’ ” Matheson said.
“I sat down beside him and Ralph said: ‘My ship is
going to sail soon.’
“And I said, ‘It’s going to sail to a good place,
Ralph. You’re going to go to be with Jesus,’ and we talked about heaven and he
was so peaceful and looked so joyful,” said Matheson.
“Ralph grabbed my hand and held on really tight and
we prayed. I’m confident that Ralph is with Jesus and that he’s in heaven, that
he’s got a full and keen mind, even better than he had in his prime, and that
he’s whole in every way.”
Ralph Klein’s public memorial service is being held
Friday at the Jack Singer Concert Hall. Since his passing on March 29 at the
age of 70, there has been an outpouring of affection from across the country
and even from around the world toward the personable politician who was
Calgary’s mayor from 1980 to 1989 and Alberta’s 12th premier from Dec. 14, 1992
to Dec. 14, 2006.
Matheson says during their final prayer together,
he shared with Ralph verses from chapter 14 of the Gospel of John in which
Jesus describes heaven, saying: “In my Father’s house there are many rooms ...
I am going there to prepare a place for you.”
“I also shared with him how in that same chapter
Jesus said: ‘I am the way and the truth and the life,’ and I encouraged Ralph
to just hang onto Jesus, thanking God that he had been forgiven, that God had a
place for him in heaven and as a result of Jesus’ resurrection and His saving
Grace in Ralph’s life, that he had nothing to fear.”
Matheson, 69, said he had met Ralph many times over
the years, but it wasn’t until the spring of 2011 that they grew closer.
That’s when Bill Olson, a retired architect, member
of the large Calgary congregation and a longtime mutual friend of both Matheson
and Klein, made a startling admission.
“Bill Olson told me that he was driving down the
Deerfoot past the church and Ralph pointed to the church and said, ‘I’ve put in
my will that I want Ray Matheson to do my funeral.’ ”
As a result, Ralph invited Matheson to his Lakeview
home.
Ralph’s wife, Colleen, went out to do some grocery
shopping during their visit and Ralph took Matheson into his den.
“I said, ‘I understand that you want me to do your
funeral,’ and he said, ‘yes, if you would.’
“I said, well, I just want to be sure that you’re
ready to die, that when you die you’ll go to heaven and that you’ll be assured
of that fact and he said, ‘yes, tell me how to be sure.’
“We talked about the way to heaven — that it is by
Grace, it isn’t dependent on how good you were, or on your church attendance,
or how many good deeds you’ve done. The Bible says it’s not of good works that
you are saved, but it is through recognizing that we are all sinners, that we
had fallen short of God’s standard and that’s what Grace was — something we
can’t earn by our own efforts.
“And then I talked about how it was through
believing that Jesus died for our sins to bring us forgiveness, that he was
crucified to pay the penalty of our sins but that he rose from the dead so that
we could have eternal life. And I said that God offers us a gift — it’s a gift
of forgiveness. It’s a gift of eternal life and the gift of peace with God and
that like any gift, we have to receive that gift.”
Matheson says he then knocked on the coffee table
in Ralph’s den.
“I said, Jesus is knocking. Jesus said: ‘I stand at
the door and knock, if you’ll hear my voice and open the door, I’ll come in and
we’ll be friends.’
“And I remember I said to him, ‘would you like to
open the door to Jesus?’ and he said, ‘yes I would, but I don’t know how to do
it.’ ”
So, Matheson led him through a prayer.
“Ralph invited Christ into his life and he seemed
so very grateful and happy after that,” said Matheson.
“Colleen came home shortly after that and I
remember he gave her a big hug and expressed his enthusiasm for what he had
done and for the sense of being forgiven.”
Matheson says Klein started attending church that
spring. But a few months later — in late August or early September — his
pulmonary problems, caused by chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, got so bad
that Ralph had to be hospitalized.
He had also by then been diagnosed with a rapidly
progressing type of dementia.
“The dementia seemed to really escalate so
quickly,” recalls Matheson, who visited him regularly at the hospital and then
at the long-term care facility in Garrison Woods.
“Sometimes he would greet me by name, he’d say
‘Ray!’ or he would say ‘pray’ but most of those times I visited he wasn’t able
to say very much at all and sometimes he would say nothing. But then I visited
him the Tuesday before he died on Good Friday and he was so much more able to
speak than he had been in such a long time.”
Matheson says several weeks ago he had told Colleen
that he had plans to celebrate his wife Dee’s 70th birthday in North Carolina
with her siblings at a cottage there. Colleen took note of those dates.
Then after Ralph died, Matheson left numerous
messages trying to connect with the busy and grieving Colleen.
By the time they connected, Colleen had made new
arrangements for the private family burial, which is expected to take place
this Saturday. Former Alberta Treasurer Jim Dinning is expected to speak and an
aboriginal smudge ceremony will take place graveside as well.
“I offered to cancel my travel plans, but Colleen
very graciously told me that I should go be with my wife.”
Matheson, however, is grateful for the time and
friendship he shared with one of Alberta’s favourite sons and looks forward to
seeing him again.
Licia Corbella is a columnist and editorial page
editor.
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